Friday, 10 February 2023

Self Esteem

In the past month, my mood has been quite low, self-esteem has decreased, I don't know exactly why, maybe it was because of the failure I had experienced. Today I want to say something to myself.


"Hi nis, having failed is normal, worrying is normal. There is always a chance to fix everything. When one door is closed in your life, it means you need to try to open another door. In life, it doesn't always go smoothly, your sadness and worry That's valid. But what you're experiencing right now isn't just you who feel it, there are millions of people who feel it.


And don't often compare yourself to others. The life you are living right now who knows is the life that other people dream of. You just compare yourself today with yourself in the past, I wonder if it was a stock, how many times has the IPO price increased? Because the zero point is that people are different, don't ever get hung up on your flaws.


You've failed, it doesn't mean there's nothing good in your life. I understand your shortcomings, things that happen are beyond your control. ".


There are many things to be grateful for in life, parents who are still there, opportunities for education, current jobs, and health that God has given us. Everyone is basically good, depending on how we look at it.


From now on you can rebuild your new targets. Life don't stop here. Many things can be improved. Always remember that in life our duty is to try.